Got to Respect ‘Got to Dance’

I love Got to Dance and here is why.

The judges
Ashley, Kimberley, Aston and, when he was on it, Adam are all so enthusiastic about dance in its many forms.
And they are NICE. Take note judges on other competitions. Nice is ok. In fact nice is pretty bloody fantastic. Even when giving criticism they are constructive. At the moment Got to Dance is the only show where the judge’s comments are as important for me to watch as the acts. Many other shows I fast forward because they get too mean, to each other, let alone the contestants.
The chemistry between the judges is great, they respect each other as artists and even when they have spats it never seems to go too far and there is always a kiss and make up.

They have fun
Jumping over stacked armchairs in the backstage area!

The dancing
One mini regret I do have is giving up dancing, ok so I was never going to be a prima ballerina but it’s fun to move to music, or without. I love watching dancing, especially street dancing.
This show will probably be responsible for most of the pins I add to my Dances I Love Pinterest board. http://pinterest.com/kirstyes/dances-i-love/

I did ‘non graded’ ballet and tap when I was younger – here are some of my outfits/shoes. I ‘remember’ playing princesses (or Neverending Story Childhood Empresses) with the blue hair accessory.

Appreciation
I mentioned it above but it needs saying again. The judges are so passionate about dance and they respect each and every contestant for giving it a go. Never have I seen them say give up dancing, yes they’ve said it’s not right for this competition and the money but they still encourage people to participate and that (as an Occupational Therapist) is so important. Do we have to be the best to take part and enjoy. NO.
I love how Ashley bounces up and down and hand gestures when he sees something really sick – and stands up when it is amazing. I joined in clapping with them when the member of Groundhogs jumped up to the height of Ashley’s head – that dude is tall.

Ps. I may be slightly in lust with Ashley, wanted to apply to Secret Dance Crew and am going to see Diversity on tour later this year (I saw them on the BGT the year they won and they were stunning).

Love this dance of Kimberley’s too.

Even the fact that the Got to Dance twitter account has twice ignored my very intelligent question about the influence of music on a gold star decision and whether anyone has got 3 gold stars without using music to dance to can’t dissuade me from my love and respect for this show.

Daddy will you read to me?

 ‘Only one in eight dads take the lead with reading to their children’

I have to admit to being both shocked and not shocked to hear this statistic.

Research interviews suggested that fathers see ‘reading as a female domain’ and tend not to use the resources or follow the practices that mothers do. It is also suggested that when they do read they read more to their daughters than their sons – therefore perpetuating the cycle.

Booktrust report this as ‘a major concern as a father’s involvement in their child’s early reading is proven to boost academic success, leading to improved social and emotional wellbeing’.

Now I agree with some of the comments on the campaign page which suggest that leading reading should be a shared responsibility but I think the concern is about men modelling reading as desirable, particularly to boys. The Booktrust campaign ‘Get Dads Reading’ is therefore challenging dads to match mums in reading. Why not even read and spend quality time all together.

HRH, The Duchess of Cornwall and author James Patterson launched the campaign. Here is James talking about it.

I learnt that James started writing for children to encourage his son to read. He also has his own website ReadKiddoRead that acts as a resource to help parents find books their children might like, and provides lesson plans and activities for educators.

Working late got much of the blame for the lack of reading to children, and research is suggesting ‘that at formal literacy events for children, only 10% of the parents attending are dads.’ This makes me wonder how much support our culture and therefore employers give dads to attend school events such as these.

Writer Matt Haig shares his views here. He suggests the ratio of women to men reading in general is 70:30 and also highlights this is a wider cultural issue with book marketing being directed more to women because they buy more. That capitalism effect again!!

My memory is rubbish so I have no actual recollection of either of my parents reading to me (I barely know what happened to me a month ago so I’m 100% sure they did – ‘I remember’ practicing writing the letters of the alphabet before school and I remember reading lots as a child). What I do recall is both my parents with their nose in a book, laid in bed together or side by side in armchairs reading, Dad bringing one with him in the car when he was taking me for an appointment somewhere. My parents love of reading has clearly rubbed off on me (I used to get told off for spending too much time on the loo with a book!!).

I’m sure I don’t need to tell you that I think reading is important for development and wellbeing – I’m almost suspicious of those who say they don’t like reading often wanting to find and suggest books that will “change their minds”.

If you are/or know a dad who takes up the challenge tweet using the hashtag #dadsreading. Believe me your children will thank you for it – eventually.

(Much of the information above comes from a Booktrust press release and I’ve tried to indicate where I used their words).

One thing I wondered when it was mentioned that boys’ literacy is falling was about the impact of this on dads’ reading. Another campaign I’ve heard Kara Tointon talking about recently is Quick Reads. This is where major authors have been commissioned to write shorter stories targeted at the 1 in 6 people who find reading challenging (Kara has dyslexia and on a recent radio show she reported feeling jealous of her sister reading when younger and really enjoying reading when she finally got into it).

You can find out more about Quick Reads and how to purchase the books here.

I’m hoping to interview Rosi Crawley from Booktrust soon, to find out more about the organisation and their work. I’m giving her a couple of weeks to settle into her new job though (Rosi was previously the giver of lovely ARCs at HarperCollins and sent me the press release for this campaign).

Please share with me your #dadsreading stories below?

Happy Geek Girl Launch Day Holly

Huge congratulations to Holly Smale on the launch of Geek Girl today. Not only was I lucky enough to interview Holly for the blog but I was invited to meet her at a book bloggers’ party last Sunday.

Holly and her team from HarperCollins were wonderful and made us all feel very welcome into the weird alien lightbulb cocoon basement at The Book Club bar in London.

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Weird Alien lightbulb ceiling

We were fed mini macaroons and cupcakes and given goodie bags including a lovely fresh copy of Geek Girl which Holly kindly signed for us all (with my Sharpie – note to Holly’s team – get the girl a multicolour pack of Sharpies – she will love you for it).

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The goodie bag contents – love the hanger paperclip, the badges and the shiny copy of Geek Girl.

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Yes I will most definitely Geek On! I can’t do anything else, it’s who I am.

There was a bit of a chair malfunction when Holly sat to talk to us about the origins of Geek Girl (as well us telling us which countries Harriet will visit in the sequels).

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Where’s Holly gone? (Otherwise known as I think the cushion’s a bit soft!)

As a writer and aspiring published author it was great to hear Holly’s passion for her story and for her characters.

Holly was a bit of a maverick when securing her agent but sensibly she told us to make sure we have written the whole book before sending it out. I also loved that she told me to write the story I want to. I just have to hope mine sells too.

I have started a bolt.it collection for Holly’s blog tour posts which you can find here.

Photo taken of Holly and us all just before we had to say goodbye

Photo taken of Holly and us all just before we had to say goodbye

And to start the day my mate Jay and I took a geeky trip to Platform 9 3/4!

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