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Daddy will you read to me?

 ‘Only one in eight dads take the lead with reading to their children’

I have to admit to being both shocked and not shocked to hear this statistic.

Research interviews suggested that fathers see ‘reading as a female domain’ and tend not to use the resources or follow the practices that mothers do. It is also suggested that when they do read they read more to their daughters than their sons – therefore perpetuating the cycle.

Booktrust report this as ‘a major concern as a father’s involvement in their child’s early reading is proven to boost academic success, leading to improved social and emotional wellbeing’.

Now I agree with some of the comments on the campaign page which suggest that leading reading should be a shared responsibility but I think the concern is about men modelling reading as desirable, particularly to boys. The Booktrust campaign ‘Get Dads Reading’ is therefore challenging dads to match mums in reading. Why not even read and spend quality time all together.

HRH, The Duchess of Cornwall and author James Patterson launched the campaign. Here is James talking about it.

I learnt that James started writing for children to encourage his son to read. He also has his own website ReadKiddoRead that acts as a resource to help parents find books their children might like, and provides lesson plans and activities for educators.

Working late got much of the blame for the lack of reading to children, and research is suggesting ‘that at formal literacy events for children, only 10% of the parents attending are dads.’ This makes me wonder how much support our culture and therefore employers give dads to attend school events such as these.

Writer Matt Haig shares his views here. He suggests the ratio of women to men reading in general is 70:30 and also highlights this is a wider cultural issue with book marketing being directed more to women because they buy more. That capitalism effect again!!

My memory is rubbish so I have no actual recollection of either of my parents reading to me (I barely know what happened to me a month ago so I’m 100% sure they did – ‘I remember’ practicing writing the letters of the alphabet before school and I remember reading lots as a child). What I do recall is both my parents with their nose in a book, laid in bed together or side by side in armchairs reading, Dad bringing one with him in the car when he was taking me for an appointment somewhere. My parents love of reading has clearly rubbed off on me (I used to get told off for spending too much time on the loo with a book!!).

I’m sure I don’t need to tell you that I think reading is important for development and wellbeing – I’m almost suspicious of those who say they don’t like reading often wanting to find and suggest books that will “change their minds”.

If you are/or know a dad who takes up the challenge tweet using the hashtag #dadsreading. Believe me your children will thank you for it – eventually.

(Much of the information above comes from a Booktrust press release and I’ve tried to indicate where I used their words).

One thing I wondered when it was mentioned that boys’ literacy is falling was about the impact of this on dads’ reading. Another campaign I’ve heard Kara Tointon talking about recently is Quick Reads. This is where major authors have been commissioned to write shorter stories targeted at the 1 in 6 people who find reading challenging (Kara has dyslexia and on a recent radio show she reported feeling jealous of her sister reading when younger and really enjoying reading when she finally got into it).

You can find out more about Quick Reads and how to purchase the books here.

I’m hoping to interview Rosi Crawley from Booktrust soon, to find out more about the organisation and their work. I’m giving her a couple of weeks to settle into her new job though (Rosi was previously the giver of lovely ARCs at HarperCollins and sent me the press release for this campaign).

Please share with me your #dadsreading stories below?

Happy Geek Girl Launch Day Holly

Huge congratulations to Holly Smale on the launch of Geek Girl today. Not only was I lucky enough to interview Holly for the blog but I was invited to meet her at a book bloggers’ party last Sunday.

Holly and her team from HarperCollins were wonderful and made us all feel very welcome into the weird alien lightbulb cocoon basement at The Book Club bar in London.

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Weird Alien lightbulb ceiling

We were fed mini macaroons and cupcakes and given goodie bags including a lovely fresh copy of Geek Girl which Holly kindly signed for us all (with my Sharpie – note to Holly’s team – get the girl a multicolour pack of Sharpies – she will love you for it).

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The goodie bag contents – love the hanger paperclip, the badges and the shiny copy of Geek Girl.

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Yes I will most definitely Geek On! I can’t do anything else, it’s who I am.

There was a bit of a chair malfunction when Holly sat to talk to us about the origins of Geek Girl (as well us telling us which countries Harriet will visit in the sequels).

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Where’s Holly gone? (Otherwise known as I think the cushion’s a bit soft!)

As a writer and aspiring published author it was great to hear Holly’s passion for her story and for her characters.

Holly was a bit of a maverick when securing her agent but sensibly she told us to make sure we have written the whole book before sending it out. I also loved that she told me to write the story I want to. I just have to hope mine sells too.

I have started a bolt.it collection for Holly’s blog tour posts which you can find here.

Photo taken of Holly and us all just before we had to say goodbye

Photo taken of Holly and us all just before we had to say goodbye

And to start the day my mate Jay and I took a geeky trip to Platform 9 3/4!

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Geek Girl Blog Tour – Author Holly Smale’s Geekiest Traits

I am delighted to be kicking off the blog tour for Holly Smale’s Geek Girl with a Q&A about her geekiest traits.

You can see a list of the other stops on the tour on the list below and I posted my review of the wonderful funny Geek Girl here.

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Hi Holly, congratulations on the book and thanks for answering my questions about your geekiest traits. Firstly I’m very pleased that being a geek is now seen in a more desirable light.

Thank you! Me too! The first time I ever got called a “geek” – when I was about seven years old – I cried for about three days. Now people are proudly buying T-shirts with the word emblazoned across it. It’s an amazing turn-around.

When did you first start to accept and be proud of your geekiness? When did you let your inner geek out?

I’ve always let my inner geek out without actually meaning to: that’s kind of what Geek Girl is about. I remember when I was eleven obliviously telling my brand new class that my “favourite single” was The Dying Swan by Tchaikovsky, and getting mocked mercilessly for the next three hours. There’s never been any hiding my inner geek, sadly: it’s really quite gobby.

It took a really long time to be proud of it, though, and I probably didn’t really come to terms with who I was until my late-twenties. I sometimes still struggle with parts of my own particular brand of geekiness, though. It’s fine that I recite Shakespeare when I’ve had too many glasses of wine and sometimes dribble a bit when I laugh: it’s not so fine when my social awkwardness leads me to say hugely embarrassing things and stops me making friends, or when I get overly verbose and irritate people. It’s more a case of acceptance, really. That shy, nervous little geek in me will always be there, so I just try to be kind to her instead of shouting at her all the time.

I have a feeling that being a writer potentially predisposes us to geekiness  (e.g. stationery and smelling books). What are your writerly geeky traits?

All of them. Book shops and libraries are where I immediately go when I’m stressed, or anxious, or overexcited, or physically lost. There’s something about the smell and potential of them that makes me feel both calm and a bit tingly. I also have the normal writer’s Stationery Habit: I buy dozens of beautiful pens and notepads to “write things”, and then end up scribbling ideas on the back of supermarket receipts because I don’t want to ruin them.

Oh, and lists. I’m a list-freak. I have one right in front of me right now. Answering this question is on it. (*Leans forwards and triumphantly crosses it off*)

To me geekiness is akin to passion and addiction. What addictions and passions do you have? What would you happily lose sleep to do?

Books are my main passion, and also what keep me up at night: it’s physically impossible for me to choose being unconscious over a good story. If I haven’t read or written anything in a while I get narky, and depressed, and twitchy, and I shout at people I don’t know very well. I think that’s a pretty universal sign of addiction to anything.

Do you think Twitter helps to feed your inner geek because it’s the perfect place for a geek up with others that may share our bizarre obsessions?

Twitter feeds EVERYTHING, doesn’t it? It gives people a place to meet and communicate about things they love, and that can be a great thing, but I also think it can be an obsession in itself. I’ve actually found myself refreshing my Twitter feed in the cinema, during quite a good film. That’s the problem with geeks/obsessive people: there are no limits to the things you can become obsessed by.

Do you think that the growing acceptance of geeks demonstrates a growing acceptance of difference in general?

I hope so. I remember when I was young that “normal” felt quite limited: you either ticked the box, or you didn’t. Now a lot of our biggest icons in every area of life – film, books, music, fashion – seem to be constantly pushing the boundaries of what that word means, and it encourages people to be whoever they want to be. That has to be a good thing. I just really hope it spreads as far as the people who struggle the most to “fit in”. I’d hate for Geekiness to become such a cool trend that isolates insecure or awkward people even more, because then it’s doing the opposite of what it’s supposed to do.

Finally down to the nitty gritty

Who would you happily stalk and why?

Ryan Gosling. There’d be so many of us I’d have lots of other people to talk to. And he’d never see me.

Geekiest book choice

A Brief History of Time, by Stephen Hawking. I’m nowhere near smart enough to understand all of it, but I find it fascinating.

Geekiest song choice

Swan Lake by Tchaikovsky. Still.

Geekiest menu

My favourite coffee: Starbucks Medium Cappuccino, extra hot with soya milk and two pumps of Almond Syrup (not four) and less froth and extra chocolate sprinkles. Every single time I ask for it I can see the person behind the counter trying not to punch me.

Geekiest outfit (feel free to share a picture)

My mum’s holey tracksuit bottoms, thermal vest, thermal leggings, a beige jumper that doesn’t fit my dad anymore and cheap grey NHS glasses that make me look “like an old lady” (I won’t share a picture because I don’t want your readers to combust with jealousy at just how vampy and glamorous I am.)

Geekiest trait of all

Getting overexcited and writing overly-long answers on Q and A quizzes.

Feel free to add anything else geeky that you’d like to be loud and proud about.

I hate Star Trek, I don’t read comics and I know nothing about computers. So there you go.

A huge thank you to Holly for sharing this insight with me – she truly is a geek after my own heart.

So dear readers what are your geekiest traits?

Geek Girl by Holly Smale is out on 28th February, published by HarperCollins Children’s Books, £6.99 (PB).  Also available in e-book formats.